My wedding has been recently fixed..It's arranged marriage..I met him for a few minutes and was asked to decide if I was ok with him..I said ok trusting my elders who felt it was an ideal match. Indeed my parents have found me a good life partner.. He's verrrry loving and caring..The relationship right now is so delicate. I'am unable to decide on few critical matters if it can be discussed with him or do I wait for sometime..Small incidences make me feel closer to him..Its like as though we are tying a knot everytime that strengthens our relationship..Slowly I realise lots of adjustments to be made, a complete revamp in my lifestyle.. But everything becomes much simpler as I have his support and love..People call this courtship period as the GOLDEN period in one's life..They say things will be very different after wedding..I wonder why? Why can't it be a golden period the entire lifetime??

I believe its the eyes which actually speak more than the lips...Many times I find people speaking something but when I look into their eyes they don't seem to support wat they speak....I strongly believe that eyes can never lie...or rather a person needs to be an expert to lie thro his eyes...Lying thro lips is something almost everybody can do...I learnt this lesson the hard way and have made it point to have an eye contact whenever I talk to someone...It really helps..

When I remember of you ; I remember of things which are really few,
The times we spent together ; In a very pleasant weather,
The happiest moment of my life's bubble ; when I was out of all trouble,
But when I recollected ; the place we were separated,
My eyes filled with water ; thinking over the matter,
Do u have my remembrance ?? Without my presence.........
 

How often do we set benchmarks for ourselves without comparing with others??? There is always a hunger for higher salary, bigger house, bigger car, better lifestyle...
Always a complain on how small the house is, food is not the way we like it,  income is not sufficient. Even when we get something bigger n better we compare it with something even bigger n better and feel unhappy about it...My dad tells us, " Always look at people who are less privileged than you, rather than looking at people better placed than you"..
Obviously this doesn't mean that we stop working hard for a better salary for a better lifestyle but just a thought to keep us happy and also makes us realise how lucky we are compared to others...Comparison with "OTHERS",  we just need to choose these "others" smartly to lead a happy life

Meeting a person for just 1 hour and deciding if you can/want to spend your entire life with this person...Is it possible?? Can a person take the right decision..or is it the decision taken just by a gut feeling.. or just something which was spoken during tht 1 hr which gave a wrong/right impression...the person's state of mind would be very different during tht 1 hour..different mood..behaving nice just to please the other person...How can just 1 hr give the impression of the person's character?? That's how things work in today's generation..Hanging inbetween the traditional way of marrying just by parents choice without even seeing the spouse before marriage and the western culture